Thank You everyone I really appreciate all your opinions. Dh is going to speak w/his cousin about what his wife has done. Thankfully its his family not mine.Dd told me she feels like she's not in the family because no one listens to what she wants about things that concern her. Not good for a kid to feel especially one who has been adopted. Dh is quite angry.
OMG that is awful!
(((Dee)))
For some strange reason I can't post on Raising A Girl!
However, I want to let you know that I agree completely with all the responses you've gotten here & there--especially with Sue's response over on RAG.
Dee
Dee
Mom to Nik