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| Fri, 05-09-2008 - 4:31pm |
Okay, I haven't vented in a while, and it appears that my DH is taking a page from Kim's DH's book.
| Fri, 05-09-2008 - 4:31pm |
Okay, I haven't vented in a while, and it appears that my DH is taking a page from Kim's DH's book.
I'm sorry, Tracy.
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Agree with Bradleyteach, you need to set up a neutral time to talk about the "family schedule" rather than your concerns about him not being around enough. Before you talk, pick a day when you think you'd like to go out with the girls and make sure that is on the schedule. Men do a lot better with a visual picture, such as a calendar, because it looks more like a set of legit appointments rather than "my wife's nagging me to be home more."
I actually call DH's assistant and get her to put it on his calendar when it's really important. Then she gets to be the bad guy and tell him he needs to go home now.
Laura mom to Gabrielle
Time for a little chat I think.
Sometimes people need the obvious pointed out to them in order to get it
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tell him that over and over. Even if you wanta knock him over the head. :)
Thats how I feel too.But it would be nice once in awhile if he could take Gabby to something and not act like it is an obligation.I truly don't mind taking Gab from place to place,but it would be nice that when I need him to do i he could do it wihout expecting a medal or acting like he is doing me a favor.When I do ask it is wih good reason.Like las week he had to go to work an hour late,because of my mom's surgery,he had to whine about it.He did it bu he stilled whined.
Laura mom to Gabrielle
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