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| Wed, 11-15-2006 - 8:37am |
I Was Wednesday Wondering....
What roll does your DH/SO play in your home?
| Wed, 11-15-2006 - 8:37am |
I Was Wednesday Wondering....
What roll does your DH/SO play in your home?
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Well if he doesn't cook hopefully he'll help clean up at least! :P I do most of the cooking but wednesdays I sometimes work later than he does. I admit I'll have everything thawed and marinated and his cooking usually involves the grill and opening boxes and adding water!!
Denise
Hubs runs our son to his religion class at 6 a.m. and I lay Hubs clothes for work out on our bed in the morning and get his lunch ready. I always make his plate at dinner - even if we're at my mom's house or somewhere else. I love when the laundry is never obvious - always done and put away - it's something that makes me feel good when all the guys he's working with are fussing about their wives and he just looks at them like their all crazy. I do love that!
What roll does your DH/SO play in your home?
I'm coming out of lurkdom to answer this one as I have fairly strong opinions about this.
What roll does your DH/SO play in your home?
Responding late...but I found it an interesting topic.
What roll does your DH/SO play in your home? Does he help with the kids & housework, or does he just allow you do to it?
I see it as an honor and my duty as a wife to serve my family in the best way that I can. That being said, there is very little in the way of housework that needs to be done by the time my husband gets home. On the weekends dh does take time to serve us.. cooking a few meals, cleaning up the kitchen afterwards, asking if I need help (which I never really do). As for care with the kids.. he's a very involved dad... always got up at night, changed diapers, helps with homework, communicates with school and teachers. etc...
Do belive that it is a 50/50 thing and they should help out? Or do you belive a man's job isn't to help out around the house?
I believe the mans' job is to serve the family in the best way that he can. That means helping where and when help is needed and tending to the emotional needs of the family as well as the finanical and physical needs. I also feel it's the duty of the wife to serve her family in the best way that she can and to make sure that the home is a haven for her husband and children. Making the home as free from stress as possible.
stacy
I have been reading all the posts and all of you ladies, I am sure, are considering yourselves lucky and blessed.
I too am late in answering this.
I guess I am going to answer from another perspective.
What roll does your DH/SO play in your home? Does he help with the kids & housework, or does he just allow you do to it?
Rory works from 1-4:30 every day, so he does a lot more in the home than I do. He does all of the meals, down to having supper ready when I get home. He spends every morning cleaning and doing laundry (except the dishes which is DS' job). After dinner, is "his time", and I take over with homework, bath, book, and bed.
Do belive that it is a 50/50 thing and they should help out? Or do you belive a man's job isn't to help out around the house?
Absolutely. If Rory worked full-time, we would split everything down the middle for certain.
Sarah
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