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| Wed, 02-14-2007 - 12:13pm |
what your tween wants doesn't match what you wish for them? Evan has to choose a language to take for the next four years. Once the decision is made it cannot be changed. Choices are Spanish, Latin, German, and French. I would love him to take Latin. It will help him with vocabulary, reading, and it's a magnet for the gifted crowd which he is definitely a part of and has tested into. He wants to take German because he thinks it sounds fun, my grandfather speaks it, and several of his current friends are going to take it. There are positives to German, it's alot like English so they learn English structure at the same time, it's a major language in European finance (Evan is a budding Alex P. Keaton). I just don't want him to miss out on future opportunities because he wants to do what his friends are doing especially since friends can change so quickly.
Advice anyone? I know if I force him into it I'm in for 4 years of struggle. He's very hard-headed and stubborn. I also need to start letting him make his own decisions but when I see how this can affect his future I have a hard time letting him make this decision at 10. I know Latin is a choice in high school. Maybe I can get him to agree to one year then.

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Personally I would never encourage my child to take Latin. (shows how we are all different) LOL Its a dead language. In today`s global economy you need
JMO but I think you are thinking this language thing too much. It's a foreign language and learning it should be fun and exciting. Knowing any 2nd language is going to be an asset to your son, no matter what it is. Learning one language over another at the age of 10 is not going to make or break his entire future. He has plenty of time and opportunities to learn latin later.
Remember that what he wants to do now with his life will change between now and the time he's 19 and declaring a major. What he chooses to do with his life needs to be his choice, as does how he gets there. You can encourage him to follow his strengths but ultimatly you need to allow him to be the individual he chooses to be. In the end what matters most is that he sees his education as something to be enjoyed. If you make it all about doing what is best for a certain career path, you run the risk of him buring out by his sophamore year.
My son is in the gifted program and has been GT identified since he was five years old. He's 13 years old and is a young 8th grader, as he just turned 13 in Mid-October. (He'll still be 17 when he starts college). Currently he takes Spanish. He chose Spanish because he plans on taking many missionary trips to the Dominican Republic. The first trip will be in the spring of 2010, so his need to have a good handle on the language is not that far off.
While I too would have loved to have seen my budding journalist take Latin, his heart is somewhere else right now and I have to allow him to follow his own dreams and choose his own path. Learning one language just opens the door to learning others and I know that ultimatly what I want for him and what he wants for his own life will be two very different things. Connor also has expressed a desire to learn Greek, Hebrew and then Latin. He hasn't ruled out Latin all together, but it is the last language on his list.. not the first. My grandfather spoke 9 languages, and ds is much like he was in that he learns languages fairly easily. Verbal/linguistic is the strongest of his Gifted Domains.
I have chosen to encourage my son to follow his own path in terms of what courses to take and what activites to get involved in. I feel that it is important to his own abilities and self confidence that he see himself as the driver on his educational and developmental journey. I can continue to offer directions, but I have to remember that at the end of the day he's the one holding the map.
JMO
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I think this has to be a decision he makes!
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Learning the language should be fun!
Kristen's mom:
You are somewhat incorrect in calling Latin "dead." In the sciences, it is the basis for the naming of all the elements, the biological species, even the diseases. French, Italian and Spanish all are based on Latin to the extent that if you can understand one of the four, you can go a long way toward understanding all four. And that's not to mention that a lot of modern English includes many Latin word bases. So Latin is not so much a language for everyday use, but is certainly one for basics. Just the same way that algebra in itself is only a framework but you can't accomplish much in mathematics without a solid knowledge of it.
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