Worst Christmas Ever!

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Registered: 12-26-2007
Worst Christmas Ever!
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Wed, 12-26-2007 - 2:32am

First a little history about my situation... My husband and I separated in July of this year.. For the first month or so things were going really well. My 13 yr old daughter started getting out of control, I had started working 11pm to 7am so that I would be able to spend more time with my kids during the day. This I later discovered was a huge mistake, my daughter was having way too much fun while i was at work. Drinking, inviting friends over and sneaking out as soon as I left. She no longer went to visit her dad, and my son 11 now 12 would get violent with me and began living with his dad fulltime, that lasted about a month and a half.. they now both live with me fulltime.


My daughter calls me very colorful names to put it mildly and my son joins right in. One month before his birthday he was put in fostercare due to his violence towards me. He has also run away numerous times.. always comes home but stays out till sometimes 2-3 AM being brought home by police, it never seems to end. My daughter will sometimes call me and tell me she is not coming home, is staying at a friends house and will not tell me where she is staying, and will block the phone number of where she is calling from.


Now with christmas, its after 2AM my kids are still up, i am locked in my bedroom.. I have been called every colorful name there is from both kids, they refuse to go to bed, my daughter has poured honey all over the kitchen counter then sprinkled cinamon on it.. my son dumped a glass of milk all over the kitchen floor, they have stolen cigarrettes from me. THey refuse to listen to any rule or follow any consequences. I have taken away phone privliges, dismantled their computer, and locked up the sony playstation.. oh and I have blocked every channel on the TV..


they do not do this around their dad at all.. They have no respect for me or my house. I am starting to understand how some parents loose it completely, you hear about it everyday in the news murder suicide don't get me wrong.. i am NOT capable of that I do love my children and could never take my own life.. , I am currently off work due to excess stress, and in the process of moving.. I am at a complete loss as to what to do... I just know that

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Registered: 04-26-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 8:43pm
I totally agree with what you said, that's why I was thinking military school would be great
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