The Battle!!!

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Registered: 02-16-2008
The Battle!!!
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Sun, 02-17-2008 - 5:17pm

Well it appears my last post really got quite a bit of discussion started. So lets see if I can get another debate fired up. Ladies you know us men we often open our mouths when we shouldnt.............oh well

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Registered: 02-26-2008
In reply to: theliving
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 6:39pm
If a man gets a woman pregnant and she decides that she doesn't want it but he wants it and will take 100% responsibility for the child I think that that is just too bad for him!

The woman has the choice no matter what, she has the fetus in HER body, by keeping a pregnancy she is responsible for going to the checkups, having a healthy life style, having to take time off work for the days when shes just feeling plain crappy, the father doesn't do this does he? No he doesn't and I really feel that he wouldn't feel obligated to do any of these things considering the fetus, which he wanted mind you, is not inside his body.


If a man wants a baby so damn bad he should adopt or wait until he finds a woman who WANTS to have a baby with him.
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Registered: 03-18-2004
In reply to: theliving
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 8:35am

smart enough ..... yes.

Responsible enough ..... obviously not

ETA my remark was back to referring top being smart enough to discuss consequences.




Edited 2/26/2008 8:35 am ET by misa101
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Registered: 04-10-2003
In reply to: theliving
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:28pm

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See, this is expecting others to base their choices and options on YOUR beliefs/morals Angil. Some people do NOT equate the z/e/f to other human life, nor do they even give it priority above their own comforts. I say that 's their right, their body, just as it entirely your right to make those z/e/f/'s inside of yours a valued priority.


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Registered: 02-04-2008
In reply to: theliving
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 9:49pm

Smart enough to accept the fact that regardless of prevention taht a pregnancy may occur?

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Registered: 04-03-2005
In reply to: theliving
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 9:11am
"that is like 4 post in a row of people who won't have sex with PLers.

I feel like a sexual leper"


Awwwwwwwwww... Melisa! *huge hugs* Don't feel that way! Who would NOT want to sleep with you, you crazy perv you.... *wink*


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Registered: 01-15-2008
In reply to: theliving
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 11:33pm

Being pregnant for me was NOT easy, it was AWFUL, ALL THREE TIMES. I had gestational diabetes (I'm not fat) and I had all day sickness. I was hospitalized TWICE and I couldn't, not that I didn't, get out of bed for weeks at a time. I didn't have wonderful skin, no one treated me special and I had to watch almost everything I ate. So what does any of this have to do with abortion? NOTHING. I believe all of this (how we felt while pregnant) is not even figured into the equation when a women decides to have an abortion.




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Registered: 01-15-2008
In reply to: theliving
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 8:48pm

There are so many things wrong with that I don't even know where to begin!


How does he know he is really the father?


Who knows what kind of father he will really be?


How does he know that she will want to give it to him after she has it?


Who pays for the medical expenses?


When she has morning sickness and has to call into work for the 10th time and gets fired does he then pay ALL her bills? I mean, after all, she has to have a place to live in order to continue on a healthy pregnancy and a car with insurance to get




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Registered: 03-07-2007
In reply to: theliving
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 6:20pm

Nah, you can't get me pregnant so you're excluded.

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Registered: 04-15-2006
In reply to: theliving
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 6:07pm

"that is like 4 post in a row of people who won't have sex with PLers."

Oh, me too, but I suppose that would only apply to having sex with a man. LOL!

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Registered: 04-10-2003
In reply to: theliving
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 6:06pm
Oh alright Misa- I'll make an exception in your case.
Busy tonight? LOL!

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