I can't believe it!
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|Fri, 08-31-2007 - 9:35pm|
I can't believe it. My husband uttered the a word tonight. Actually he did not even say the word, but he said that he was starting to wonder if "that" is so out of the question.
Some of you remember me posting here. I came in all fire and fury pro life and then I changed my views to pro choice. I say it this way, I am pro life regarding myself and pro choice regarding others. I would never have an abortion but I can understand why someone in another situation might make that decision and it is not my job to judge or even to change minds. It is just my job to live my life and by my morals the best way that I can.
And my husband knows all that. He knows how I feel about the whole issue and in regards to myself. So I cannot believe he would even approach it with me and I said as much to him. And he said he was just being honest.
He said "I just don't know if this is a good idea" and I said "it might not be a good idea but what is already is" and he said "I am starting to wonder if THAT is so out of the question". I told him that wasn't nessecarily a good thing to say to me and he said he was just being honest.
So now I worry, how strong is my marriage. I will be having this baby. But will that make him resent me forever? But if I even entertained the idea of doing something that I cannot morally do, I would resent him forever and our marriage could definatley not survive that. I love him, he says he loves me and I know he loves our current 3 kids. I was hoping that he would come around and once this baby is born he would love it just as much as the others.
Do you think a marriage can survive this?