I feel guilty.
Don't feel guilty about this, hon. We're all saddened by your loss, but we're all also glad that you survived to tell us about it.
Even the Catholic Church would agree that you did the right thing.
Just trying to empathize - I think that mothers who lose babies to SIDS or seizures or other uncontrollable circumstances also go through deep guilt, feeling that somehow they could have protected their little one. Maybe this is a normal part of grieving, wishing or feeling like you could have prevented this somehow.
Although it doesn't make the emotions disappear to hear it again, there are no behaviors that cause ectopic pregnancy. You didn't make this happen, and there was nothing that could have been done to save your baby.
Found this on the subject: