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|Thu, 06-07-2007 - 11:37am|
So after having a pregnacy scare, my husband is even more adamant about not wanting another child. Whereas I really wouldn't mind having one more. BUT I am totally happy with the children that we already have and am fine with our family being complete.
Bt whenever I bring up that I think that he should think about getting a vasectomy he gets mad. I think that it is fair because I carried all 3 prenancies and pushed all 3 kids out. He says that is a stupid argument because he didn't force me to have kids in the first place.
And I am terrified of surgrey and even more so of anesthesia. So to me the logical conclusin is that he gets a vasectomy(rather than me being on birth control for the rest of my life). Escpecially since he is the one who is more sure that he doesn't want more children.
What do you think? Am I being unresonable? Is he? Is there a happy comprimise? (Just a note, I am also one of those women who should not have an iud,not an option.)