My apologies and best wishes

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Registered: 03-08-2007
My apologies and best wishes
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:47am

Let my start by saying that I apologize to all those whom I came off to as rude. There were times when I got upset and unfairly insulted people. I am truly sorry.

As most of you know I am currently 24 weeks pregnant with my first child and I believe the reason sometimes I became so angry was because I took it personally. It sometimes felt like people were regarding her as worthless, only cells, and not really a baby or person. Medically speaking she is a fetus, but in my heart she is my daughter. My baby. I love her just as much now as I will when she is born in August. And we preggos tend to be a bit moody! Lol

I don't think I'll be coming back to this board anymore, but I wanted to leave everyone on good terms. Again, I do apologize to anyone I offended. Best of luck everyone!


And most importantly... Each to their own!

Ella Grayce

Lilypie1st Birthday Ticker
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Registered: 04-15-2006
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:54am

Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy! This is not an easy board to debate on so I totally understand.

Take Care!


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Registered: 01-07-2007
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 10:55am

Thank you for recognizing this and apologizing for it. I too am currently pregnant with my first child, almost 29 weeks and I know how it is to get overly emotional about something.

I just want to point out that you took things WAY too personally, as if those of us who are pro-choice here are saying bad or negative things specifically about you or your unborn. That never happened here. I also want to point out that no one here is trying to get you to agree with abortion, only that you and others not take that choice away from others.

GL to you in your pregnancy. Your unborn is a very lucky little girl to have a mother who loves her so much already. :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2006
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 5:03pm

It was good of you to post this :)


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Registered: 10-06-2010
Wed, 05-02-2007 - 5:15pm

Good luck with your pregnancy, I hope it goes smooth and that your daughter has a lifetime of health, happiness and love!

No one would ever try and downplay your child or what she means to you. Not everyone thinks like you do since only you are pregnant with your child and we are not!

Good luck with everything!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 05-03-2007 - 6:46am
Best wishes for a healthy, safe delivery! Congratulations :o)