Because we got on the subject of reincarnation, I'll add my thoughts.
We found out at 18 weeks that she had spina bifida and a number of related complications.
Youre right about that womens intuition!
My SIL terminated at 7 months! Had to give birth to the poor little still born. He had severe deformaties and basically only half a brain and she was told he would not really live long after birth. His skull was all crushed in too. It was awful for her.
She is due in a week to have a perfect little girl.
she had a bunch of miscarriages trying for that last child she had to terminate. that was a little over a year ago.
I'm so happy for her to be having a healthy baby.