Who ELSE feels the pain of abortion?

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Who ELSE feels the pain of abortion?
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Sat, 01-31-2009 - 11:58pm
 

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Registered: 06-17-2007
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 4:12pm

<<"Links, stats to back this up? Thanks in advance."

Please post links that contradict it.>>

Nope, that isn't the way debate works. If you make a claim, it's your burden to prove it true, not everyone else's burden to prove it wrong.

As a side note, I'd probably shy away from the debate advice you've given a couple posters on this board, because you're making some pretty big logical fallacies in your posts. It's getting a little hypocritical.




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Registered: 06-17-2007
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 4:15pm

"Throw all the stones you like. My house is made of stone. LOL!"

I didn't know that inconsistent, hypocritical arguments were made of stone. They look pretty transparent to me.




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Fri, 02-06-2009 - 4:16pm

"So if they did not survive, no harm done really. They are not babies. They do not have arms and legs and heartbeats..."

I'm going to remember this one.




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Registered: 12-12-2008
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 5:23pm

No, I would not try to make abortion illegal.

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Registered: 12-12-2008
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 5:24pm
oh--I just saw your post.
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Registered: 01-22-2009
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 6:28pm

My dd cut this out of the paper this morning:


http://www.thestar.com/comment/columnists/article/576453

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Registered: 04-10-2003
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 7:58pm

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Why would you think that? The risks of using 2 forms of birth control over a long period of time might be more undesirable than the smaller risk of needing an abortion.

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Oh for sure.

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Unless one has had their uterus or testicles removed, you betcha.

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Yup. And for some, abortion may be their preferred method of risk management.

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Because maybe they prefer the risks of another form of birth control that is not physically invasive upon their bodies?

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Maybe they prefer to accept the 95-99% efficacy rate of BCP, and the lower %age risk of needing an abortion to a physically invasive procedure ? As is their right.

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Registered: 10-06-2010
Fri, 02-06-2009 - 8:47pm
I am CF by choice. I have an IUD. I was on the pill but I had to get off because of my family risk of heart attack/heart problems. I have talked to 20+ gyno's and none will tie my tubes because " I might change my mind and want a child" abd because I am only 25. I guess they think they know better than I do.

Why does my husband not get a vasectomy? We cannot afford to get him health insurance but make to much to qualify for any "reduced cost" one. The only reason I have health insurance is because my parents pay for it, without their help I wouldn't have it either.

Condoms? We use to use them, they break and fall off. Not good for preventing pregnancy.

So far we have been SA together since I was 15 with no pregnancy scares. So 10 years and no issues. I will take the small risk that I might get pregnant. I hope it never happens but if it does I will have an abortion.


Part of being responsible is that I know DH and I do not want and could not afford children. There is no part of us that wants children. So why would I bring one into the world that is unwanted so that I could dump it in foster care? Try and raise it all while being incredibly miserable and unhappy?

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Registered: 01-22-2009
Sat, 02-07-2009 - 1:23am

~The risks of using 2 forms of birth control over a long period of time might be more undesirable than the smaller risk of needing an abortion.~


I'm not sure how that would work anyway in re: to avoiding abortion, ie.

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Registered: 02-28-2008
Sat, 02-07-2009 - 1:30pm

Well i have had an abortion and i had my reasons and they are my own and i have to say even years after the fact...

still a great decision.

You always hear about what a mistake it was and how the woman always regrets it and how torn up she was and how she agonized over it and i thought I would give the other side of it.

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