Well, yesterday was officially the worst day of my life.
Oh I am SOOOOOOOOOO sorry for you hun!!! I wish things could have been different. I know how terrible losing a much loved and wanted baby is. If you need ANYTHING from me please don't hesitate to ask!
((((HUGE HEALING HUGS))))
Oh, honey, I'm so sorry - I know how excited you were.
Email me privately if there's anything I can do.
Do you have support at home so you can heal?
I am soooo sorry for your loss. That must have been so scary for you. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. You can e-mail me.
I am so sorry. I just want you to know that this same thing happened with my mother but it exploded and she was clinically dead on three separate occasions.
However, she conceived and gave birth to my younger brother not even two years after the incident.
Lori**Navy Wife to Eddie since Dec 2002**
Oh, mom2...I am so sorry for your losses, of your baby and of your tube. I am so sorry that it all went down in such a scary, confusing, embarrassing, lonely sort of way. I send hugs, P&PT. You are so smart to realize when it's important to take your own health seriously and get medical care. I hope you are healing okay and able to take time out for yourself and what you need right now. What an incredibly tumultuous month you've had!
(I hope it's not insensitive to head straight into geek mode) As dbl007 said, loss of one tube does not mean infertility, although it's very scary to think about your most essential female organs being hurt. From everything I can read, fertility rates after loss of one tube in an otherwise normally fertile woman are 75-80% (which means it just sometimes takes a wee bit longer to conceive because when the non-tube ovary ovulates it's not likely to find its way home). You still have all the choices and possibilities you had before.
(as an aside, the ultrasound techs where I am are instructed to let women guide their own wands in for internals, with the idea that women would find it less invasive or traumatic to put something in themselves than to have someone else do it. But she's still a schmuck for not reading your vibe and doing what you needed when you were obviously upset and couldn't even have your husband with you because you're the kind of mom who would make sure he was with your kids).
That is awful!