Inappropriate places to BFIP??

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Inappropriate places to BFIP??
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Tue, 02-17-2004 - 10:48am

Is there anywhere you feel it is completely inappropriate to nurse in public?

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Registered: 02-18-2004
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 10:35pm
Yes. It is quicker.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 10:50pm
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I don't know, at least he wouldn't have been left in the car seat carrier as often.

Sherry

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 03-01-2004 - 10:54pm
My dd has recently started cuddling without wanting to nurse. The first time I noticed it, she snuggled next to me and I automatically lifted my shirt. She said "No, I don't want milk". She just wanted to cuddle. My baby is growing up !

Sherry

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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 2:09am

i think peolpe who haven't lost a parent really don't understand the magnetude of the loss,, they do try and help they really do feel bad for you but then they can still go about their same ole lives,,, while you are struggling to figure out where your life is,,my girlfriend whom i have known forever came down the day after my father passed away thinking she was helping me ,, but at that time i would have rather been left alone,, she has two little kids ,, one very high maintenence so instead of jsut laying around moping like i would have wanted to do i had to constantly clean up after her little girl and do dinners, it would have been nice had she come down a mth or two later but not the day after,, she also knew my dad and i think it was her way of grieving but it didn't help me any, i can tell you one thing worse than losing a parent,, is losing a child,, we almost lost tyler yesturday,and the panic in my heart was like nothing i have felt before , my dh took him to the pond,, like he's done many times before so i could houseclean, and he was hooking the older boys and my sons friends fishing pole up and when he looked up tyler was floating face down some ten feet away,, our dr said the only reason he was floating was because he was holding his breath and his nose was plugged up because he had a cold, my husband was still shaking an hour later, i think losing a child would actually kill me cause almost losing tyler was unbearable, i couldn't stop holding him and crying,


how old is your dd? i would always show her pictures and tell her what her and her grandma have done,, just so its imprinted in her memory, tyler won't remember my dad but the older two will ,, connor is probly to young also and tyler was just 2 mths ,, at least my dad got to see tyler,

Vicky ~31~


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Vicky ~32~

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Kelsey The Brainiac

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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 2:15am
i can understand the leaving the room while you smoke so you don't blow second hand

Vicky ~32~

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Kelsey The Brainiac

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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 2:39am

my sil calls her suv "the truck",, i call my minivan "the car" my husbands truck is "his truck" and our suv is called "the pig,", and thats also what it says on the plates, we also have an old international that we call "grandpas, truck" since rebuilding it was his hobby, my girlfriend refers to her suv as her car as does my other girlfriend,


just had to toss that in

Vicky ~31~


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Kelsey The Brainiac

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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 5:56am
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The way you and others are making it sound (and I am sure that is not anyone's intention) is that a baby can only be held and bonded with while feeding (bf or ff). That simply isn't true. By that theory, all babies stop being held once they stop bf or ff and are eating dinner at the table with their parents.>>

FINALLY a voice of reason. I was wondering the very SAME thing myself. Great post.

eileen

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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 6:26am
We just got the SUV so we have been trying to distinguish btw the two here around the house. I don't like to go out and look for something in the car when it is really in the other ha! Dh just wishes I'd wash my own "whatever" I drive. Not on my list of job responsibilities I told him, he laughed.
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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 7:35am
Doesn't Ward understand that washing the car,suv truck whatever is the man's job? Three lashings with a wet noodle for Ward!!!!LOL!!!!~Lisa
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Tue, 03-02-2004 - 7:37am
ITA!~Lisa

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