Should teens decide on circumcision?

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Registered: 05-15-2009
Should teens decide on circumcision?
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Fri, 07-29-2011 - 12:18pm

That's the title of this article:

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2010
Fri, 07-29-2011 - 2:03pm
The age of consent should be the line drawn. There's absolutely no reason there should be a separate standard for male circumcision.
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Registered: 04-27-2009
Fri, 07-29-2011 - 4:01pm

Fully agree: the age of consent should draw the line.

It is interesting that a CNN article that is fairly supportive of circumcision (in the sense that it mostly highlights the "pros" only) would put this question in the air. Anything just to promote circumcision.

In any case, the chances of intact teenagers opting for circumcision out of their own free are so miniscule that, in a twisted way, I would gladly take the very calculated risk and accept teenage consent if I can simultaneously have a ban on neonatal circumcision.

But no chance of that. In fact, one of the main arguments of the pro-circumcision crowd is to take advantage that babies cannot say no and cut them before they can object.....

Regards,

Federico.

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Registered: 01-06-2002
Sat, 07-30-2011 - 9:05pm

In the UK, the age of consent is 16. If a boy that age insists he wants to be circumcised, he can - but his parents will have to pay for it, or he himself. The NHS won't.

Thankfully, very, very few ever want it. Goodness, why would they?

Christopher

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-15-2009
Sun, 07-31-2011 - 9:51am

I agree with you all - the age of consent should be the line.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-16-2008
Fri, 08-05-2011 - 10:42pm

18 without medical need is definitely the line in the sand.

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Registered: 01-06-2002
Sat, 08-06-2011 - 12:23am

The 'magic' age of 13 - a teenager! Long before the word was coined, I remember thinking that to be 13 years old meant I was no longer a 'boy'.

Sixteen is the age of consent in the UK - and some would wish it reduced to 14. I agree that most males with the ability and the freedom to make their own decisions would think twice, very seriously, before any decision to be circumcised.

Christopher

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-10-2011
Sat, 08-06-2011 - 2:58pm

"18 without medical need is definitely the line in the sand.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2011
Tue, 08-23-2011 - 9:58pm

The parents should decide...if the parents

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2010
Sun, 11-20-2011 - 12:49pm

My youngest son was adopted from a foreign country where circumcision is not done.

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Registered: 01-06-2002
Sun, 11-20-2011 - 7:27pm

Frank...

A clearly expressed and non-confrontational post from you. Thank you.

However, I must ask you to consider that your "frequent UTIs" were caused by other matters than your foreskin. 'Tight' or not, your foreskin was most unlikely to have been the culprit. In the UK where boys are left intact in their millions, UTIs are conspicuous by their absence!

There is no proper foreskin hygiene - except to leave it alone. The penis is self-cleansing, would you believe? Why would nature make it any other way?

Yes of course any level-headed boy old enough to take in the ramifications of circumcision itself - and what he will lose in later life without a foreskin - should be allowed to make that decision. But in my opinion self-image alone is not sufficient reason for a such a life changing and permanent modification to his penis; especially when the CDC puts the current routine circ rate in the US at around 35%.

Christopher

"Education is the discovery of our own ignorance." Will Durant


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