Was it you or your dh who wanted to leave your son intact?

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Registered: 11-13-2008
Was it you or your dh who wanted to leave your son intact?
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Wed, 01-05-2011 - 3:28pm

I was wondering if it was a mutual decision or if one of you had to convince the other.

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Registered: 07-16-2008
I refused to allow DS to be circ'ed. SO's first son was, he didn't understand why I wouldn't want it done. He finally relented only because he knew it was a hill I was ready to die on, and since we are not married he didn't really have any say in the hospital with what would happen. They would not go against my express wishes and I made it very clear, repeatedly, that my son would remain intact.

Now he's accepting of it but still doesn't see what the big deal was to me. Our son will thank me down the road. Or not, but it's his penis to do with as he pleases.
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