gender selection now a multi-million dollar industry

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gender selection now a multi-million dollar industry
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Mon, 09-17-2012 - 2:41pm

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/17/gender-selection-_n_1889991.html?utm_hp_ref=parents&ir=Parents

What do you think about this? According to the article, it's girls most parents are desperate for, rather than boys.

In some circumstances I can see the logic in this. For example, I have a good friend whose son has Barth Syndrome. He had a heart transplant at 18 months old. While women/girls can be CARRIERS, only an actual male can have BS. My friend is a carrier, if they had another son, he would likely suffer from this condition as well. If they had a girl, it would be all good. Long story short, her son is an only child and will remain so. Since there is no way to "guarantee" a girl, and they don't want another child going through the hell their son has, they decided to stick with just one kid.

I also have a friend who I could have seen doing this, had she had the money. She has six boys - two stepsons she has raised, four biological she gave birth too. She desperately wanted a girl each and every time she was pregnant. She adores all her kids, is an AMAZING mom, but yeah - I could see her doing this at one time.

I was suprised no one mentioned autism as a risk factor, since girls are much less likely to be autistic. (Except in my case, my daughter has ASD and my son is the "normal" one.)

What are your thoughts? Would you have ever done something like this, or would you judge someone else who did it? (I have to admit, as pro-choice as I am, I think abortion for gender selection is reprehensible!)

Angie

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Let's take if pug of the abortion realm. I support the right of a pet owner to euthanize her dog. In the case of a pet owner who decides to put down her old, cancer-ridden, blind dog who is in constant pain, I am supportive if the choice. Another pet owner who decides to euthanize her dog because it chews her shoes and she can't be bothered to train it, or because she had a new boyfriend who doesn't like dogs? I might not even want to know that person. But I still support the right of people to euthanize their pets.
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Jam, if there is some kind of analogy in the last comment, I am not getting it. Sorry.
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<<<No, the point is it does not and should not matter why a person does anything if you support the choice you support the choice why they have an abortion is neither any of your business nor important.>>>

You're right - whatever reasons a woman might choose to terminate are no one's business. It doesn't mean people won't have an opinion about it. The difference between the pro-choice and pro-life camps are that the pro-life side believes their opinions should be legislated into law governing another woman's body. The pro-choice side does not.

Angie

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Well, Jam, I am not getting it. If anyone cares to explain it to me, I will try to respond if not, well, I guess we're at a dead end.

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