Should Children Be Forced to Write Thank-You Notes?

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Should Children Be Forced to Write Thank-You Notes?
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Wed, 01-23-2013 - 10:09am

Are good manners going the way of the Dodo bird? While most of us were raised to write thank-you notes promptly, it seems some of us haven’t passed that bit of etiquette onto our kids. 

Philip Galanes, New York Times columnist and author of the book, “Social Q’s: How to Survive the Quirks, Quandaries and Quagmires of Today,” discussed the disappearing thank-you card and other etiquette dilemmas facing parents on TODAY.

Galanes recounted the story of a grandmother of nine who wrote to him that she has never received a thank-you card for any of the birthday and Christmas presents she has given her grandchildren over the years. She was annoyed, but unsure how to demand a bit of gratitude – a predicament that offended Matt Lauer, father of three. “I think it’s unacceptable that they don’t write any thank you notes,” Matt said.

Should children be forced to write thank-you notes?- http://www.today.com/moms/should-kids-be-forced-write-thank-you-notes-1B8057224

Where do you stand on the issue? Should children be told to write thank-you notes each time they receive a gift?

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