frankly,i would take what the grandparent said with a grain of salt.
i know for a fact that there is some disagreement in what MIL thinks of our raising our children.
i don't know.
her oldest is a junior in h.s. and honestly,i think alot about her lifestyle over the years has sort of contradicted how it is her kids are growing up.
"If you can't annoy somebody with what you write, I think there's little point in writing."-- Kingsley Amis, British novelist, 1971 t .
the point is there are lots of message boards where ppl plant opinions,judgmenets without knowing all the facts,all there is to know about any one particular person all the time.
How is it hypocritical?
I think it would have been an interesting debate if you had addressed the many questions about gender and role reversal instead of the direction that it went.