Affording to Stay at Home
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| Wed, 12-12-2007 - 12:20am |
Ever notice that those moms that SAH are usually (although not always) more well off than mothers who WOH? It seems to me, based on what I have seen, that while most women enjoy working their jobs and having a professional life outside of the home, some women prefer to stay home with their kids for a certain amount of time - whether it be 1 year or 10 years - and those women have the option to do so, while other women wouldn't even consider the option because they feel they can't afford it.
Well, it has been my experience that most women who do stay at home have
1) husbands who support the idea
2) Husbands who probably earn enough (or almost enough) to support the family.
3) Enough money to support themselves without working.
**Now I am not talking about people who get help from government agencies, I am speaking about women who do it with no outside help - just seems like most women can't because of financial reasons. So, is being a SAH mom now an "upper class" phenomenon - in general? Of course there are many SAH moms that are middle class, but if they chose to have paying jobs, they'd probably move right back up into that higher income bracket.

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I am not familiar with sec 8.
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Ducky
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"BTW, I hate Lifetime. Their movies will suck you in and all of a sudden you've watched 3 in a row, used every tissue in t
ITA that her move probably would be temporary as she is going to another state and trying to sell her old home to buy a new one.
Why do you have a problem with me asking you about your move as you have told me over and over before that you did that as a temporary thing but you seemed to have stayed for awhile.
Don't know her circumstances but maybe the only apt's available are not what she desires, don't know?
No, there are only certain homes. My gf is going through this now and she is having a hard time because most of the homes are in the bad towns in our area.
Why would you think only "I" think these areas are bad towns?
I didn't say you knew exactly how they live.
Kitty
"I think Noonan is at least eight years too late when she laments that faith now trumps competence in GOP politics. It didn't seem to bother her much when a candidate she supported -- the catastrophically underqualified GWB -- was running and citing Jesus as his favorite political philosopher...It's like the old saying: When you lie down with dogs, you wake up with Hucka-fleas..."--Gator
Click on the Virginia Rescue Center and search for Roxey, VA5165
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Kitty
"BTW, I hate Lifetime. Their movies will suck you in and all of a sudden you've watched 3 in a row, used every tissue in t
Why do you have a problem with me asking you about your move as you have told me over and over before that you did that as a temporary thing but you seemed to have stayed for awhile.
What I have a problem with is the fact that you won't drop it.
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Ducky
I myself have lived in 2 apt's after I got married but they were in people's homes. I do know people who have lived and do live in apt's. I find nothing wrong with it but most people do not stay there a long time as it is usually too small for a family.
Maybe I am the first you have met who does not go into the city. My parents never took us and I have only gone a few times with my dh and friends. While it is not too far to go, I don't have the need to be there as I can get whatever I need right here on the island. Once my kids get a little older, I would like to take them in to see certain things but it is hard with smaller children and a long day for them.
Believe it or not, I have been to Hawaii but have never been to the Statue of Liberty!
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