Affording to Stay at Home
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| Wed, 12-12-2007 - 12:20am |
Ever notice that those moms that SAH are usually (although not always) more well off than mothers who WOH? It seems to me, based on what I have seen, that while most women enjoy working their jobs and having a professional life outside of the home, some women prefer to stay home with their kids for a certain amount of time - whether it be 1 year or 10 years - and those women have the option to do so, while other women wouldn't even consider the option because they feel they can't afford it.
Well, it has been my experience that most women who do stay at home have
1) husbands who support the idea
2) Husbands who probably earn enough (or almost enough) to support the family.
3) Enough money to support themselves without working.
**Now I am not talking about people who get help from government agencies, I am speaking about women who do it with no outside help - just seems like most women can't because of financial reasons. So, is being a SAH mom now an "upper class" phenomenon - in general? Of course there are many SAH moms that are middle class, but if they chose to have paying jobs, they'd probably move right back up into that higher income bracket.

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Small is relative to where you live.
I understand why it would be snobbish to identify a single occupation (auto mechanics) as one you do not want to live near. I do not understand why it would be snobbish to identify a single occupation (rocket scientist) and say
Never said every apt. was too small to raise a family in. The large ones in the city are very expensive and even on LI the rent for a 2 bedroom starts at $1,400 IME of friends who have lived in apts.
Plus the tenant cannot trash the home or they can lose their section 8.
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