I'm a WOHP wondering why you didn't just make a poll, but there's likely a good reason, so I'm not criticizing, just curious.
Now I'm going to my run-on sentence anonymous meeting ;)
"If you can't annoy somebody with what you write, I think there's little point in writing."-- Kingsley Amis, British novelist, 1971 t .
I'm replying twice. I wah ft.
The truth may be out there but lies are in your head. Terry Pratchett
Here's my 2nd post. I also woh pt, up to 24 hours a week, depending on the time of year.
I'll put this here since I think that it's relevant to what you are trying to do. I was a ft sahm (with forrays into wah) for 12 years. So I have been a sahm, a wohm, and a wahm in my 31 years of being a mom.