I like the idea of "temporarily
"and also lucky to be married to man who is okay with the concept of me contributing zero dollars to our family budget for a period of years.'
I think that is a big part of the "luck".
<buy this house, but alas I cannot. Partly we made a bad financial choice, and I own that fully, but we also did not have the foresight to know the entire market was gonna crash and vastly deflate our house value.>>
This is pretty much exactly us.
They fall in love with the same things every woman falls in love with.
I would assume they fall in love with their husbands.
Isn't that pretty much the goal in all marriages?