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| Sat, 10-29-2011 - 9:01am |
Will/are you encouraging your child(ren) into practical or academic pursuits in college?
Do you think your working status has made an impact on your decision?
I am 37 years old and in my first year in college and I am still feeling out my major. At a recent dinner party, I was introduced to a student that attends the same community college that I do. When I told her that I was considering transferring to the state university to pursue a degree in sociology, she nearly spit her drink out of her nose in laughter and told me that it would be completely worthless. She's getting an associate's degree in social work and already knows the wage and benefit package to work as an eligibility specialist at the Department of Human Services. She's going to make $18 an hour and have $7 copays on her comprehensive medical plan.
Aside from her bluntless, I keep having this same conversation with other students no matter their age; they are highly specific in their college plans and know how much they'll make when they finish, and it blows their mind that I really don't a plan. I understand that student debt is an issue, which is exactly why I am going to a community college to knock out the basics and a handful of core credits. I am scheduled for an academic advising appointment next week and I wonder if each degree comes with a sheet selling each student on return of investment for their time and student loan dollars? This attitude is so persistant that I'm considering making an application for the dental hygiene program instead (which I have an interest in), and only return to school once I am settled in a lucrative and flexible position to study what I want.
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It would take a huge amount of discipline to pursue dance that intensely. She must be an amazing kid!
We are also encouraging our children to stay home and attend community college and then transfer. One prestigious state university near us has highly competitive first-year admission, but the transfer programs seem to allow more leeway.
I don't think of college as job training. I hope my children have interests that turn into lucrative careers, but I don't expect them to be finished products, safely ensconced in their career, at 22.
There's a lot of pressure on kids to have it all figured out without the luxury of adult life experience. I
Aw, emptynester, I am glad there was a highpoint to your day. I'm sure that's the way the girls' grandmother would have preferred it.
Really, as long as they don't expect to live with me or have me support them, then they should do whatever makes them happy.
FTR, right now The Girl is looking at attending the University of Arkansas to study either forensics or criminal justice. Until recently, she'd been looking to go to vet school. She's got about 2 years to make her college decision, so it may very well change, but she's thinking about it heavily already.
But, she has no thoughts towards exact jobs or salaries, etc.
My oldest son has looked into it as a possible career path, he is short and may not make the height requirement to be a state cop. As a 14yo non-runner, he could pass all the fitness requirements for entrance to the academy with ease.
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I completely agree.
I agree with your dad.
Chris
The truth may be out there but lies are in your head. Terry Pratchett
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