Confessions of one sahm

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Registered: 01-09-2009
Confessions of one sahm
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Fri, 04-03-2009 - 1:58pm

I've been thinking about this *debate* lately, and I think that many of my

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Registered: 04-22-2005
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 4:09pm
I think I know what you're talking about. What is considered ideal comes with a WHOLE lot of "If"s. So many "if"s that even an ideal can't be considered THE ideal.
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Registered: 06-27-1998
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 4:22pm

There are just so many factors involved, I totally understand what you are saying here....and why I have said over the years that parenting shouldn't be dependent on working status or lack there of because those if's can change at a moments notice sometimes, lol.


PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 01-15-2006
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 5:52pm

i'm not sure where she's going but your words remind me of something.


i remember pondering alot of,"if only ifs" in our (early) relationship.

 

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Registered: 03-31-2009
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 9:16pm

Raising a child is not about an ideal life for the parents.

It is ideal for a mother to assume her roll as mother by caring for
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Registered: 03-06-2009
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 9:20pm
you know I"ll doubt if you could find a more devoted and selfless mother than featheredfriend - nor a woman of deeper faith -- you're barking up the wrong tree here if you think there's something to criticize -- I only hope i'm 1/2 the mom to my one that she is to her flock of wonderful kids...
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Registered: 06-27-1998
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 10:30pm

Prove it.


PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 10:31pm

I totally agree.


PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 04-03-2009
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 10:32pm
Proof?
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Fri, 04-03-2009 - 10:32pm

"It is ideal for a mother to assume her roll as mother by caring for

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Registered: 03-24-2009
Fri, 04-03-2009 - 10:32pm
I usually assume my roll with butter and jam.

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