Do people need a reason to SAH?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-29-1999
Do people need a reason to SAH?
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Sun, 07-18-2010 - 9:28am

This theme was touched upon in another thread and I wanted to discuss it further.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:06pm

A "drug house" does not look any different than you or your neighbors house. The people are usually ones who have jobs, look like normal people and drive normal cars (unless they are BIG dealers who have more expensive things--never experienced that).



iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2010
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:07pm

I agree. Although this problem isn't limited to women on welfare. I know many upper middle class women, accustomed to SAH and then their husband loses his job. In some cases, the woman goes to work immediately. Or, waits until things get worse, then goes to work. In some cases, she never will work and they lose their home, their car, everything.

I know someone right now who has refused to work for years, and her husband is at this very moment selling their SUV. She sits at home on Facebook all day long.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-10-2009
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:09pm

I'm confused.



If the house looks just like all the others on the street ... if the people involved have jobs ... if the people involved look like normal people ... if the people involved drive normal cars ...

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:11pm
I have said it before in my posts or you can google it also and it will explain just like I have. Thanks.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2000
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:11pm

It's magic, I tell you...




iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:13pm
I have explained before in my other posts.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-10-2009
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:17pm
Maybe she has a telescope?
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-10-2009
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:18pm
You've not given any convincing explanation.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:19pm
Nope, houses are really close together and you don't NEED to see in someone's window to know when this type of illegal activity is happening in the fashion I have explained.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2010
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 5:20pm
Sorry you feel that way. I KNOW what I saw and what transpired from it.

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