Do women or men make better bosses?

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Do women or men make better bosses?
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Tue, 03-19-2013 - 4:10pm

I realize you can't generalize when it comes to gender, you can find good and bad in both of them.  I was just curious what everyone's experiences have been when it comes to management, if you've have a better experience with a man versus a woman.   

In your experience, who have been the better bosses?  Did your experiences differ when it came to the position you were in, the career path you were on, or whether you had children at the time or were childless?  

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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 8:29am

cruisingchick20111 wrote:
I was asked my opinion like everyone and spoke from experience. I have actually have had 8 women bosses in the past 25 years with whom I used my experience from.

You know, This going to sound awful sexist but I'm going to throw it out anyway.  Our school district is filled with more female principals and those ladies are wonderful and sensitive and easy to talk to..  But if I want something done with regard to my kid I'm darn glad it's the guy principal at her middle school that will get that done!  This is my DD whose on an IEP and some of her teachers drag out the accomodations or excuse away some services.  Earlier this year there was a situation about therapy DD wasn't getting and I asked the team how we/they could turn that around.  They played trial an error and I trusted that things would improve, Well it didn't.  At the last meeting I asked that the principal attend the meeting and he did, It was his words over the teacher and even the director of services that rang the necessary bells!  Thank God I asked for him at that last meeting, That guy isn't going to baby my kid or tip toe around her. 

Isn't your boss a man now...  Or no?

 

 

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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 9:28am
Jambles, Do you think your daughter's principal's competence and ability to get the team to implement the plan has anything to do with his DNA? In other words, is he able to to the job better because he's a man, or could a woman in the same position be equally competent?
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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 9:42am

jamblessedthree wrote:
<p>Whose sweeping generlizations?  cchick added IMO which means it is limited to her experience..  Are yours? </p>

Could you explain which generalization I've made in this thread?

Or a generalization I've made where I didn't throw out the possibility that my experience was limited?

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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 9:58am
Jams, the issue that both dh and I have had with bosses with sah spouses have been that they seem to be...ummmm, spoiled, for the lack of a different word. While one would think that an employee with a sahs might have more flexibility, the few that we have encountered were actually much less so. In one office, the job was not a strict 9 to 5 kind of gig, and it required much in the way of flexibility. The mananger with a sahw would rarely flex, he was pretty strict with what hours he would work, and would make himself completely unavailable for phone calls during his "off" hours" (his was kind of an on call position).
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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 10:02am
Bord, it's kind of funny...talking about being emotional. I one case, I worked with (not for) a male manager that was extrememly emotional, and it did effect his job performance. He was whiney and pouty, and his team didn't really respect him. Hubby worked for a guy that was very similar, but it did not effect his job performance.
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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 10:15am
Isn't your boss a man now... Or no? My "main" manager is a woman, 2 men above her (one an assistant of the other), then another woman on above them, and then a man above her.
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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 10:19am
Seriously, how many layers of management does your company need?
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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 10:25am
We are a big company Peachy.
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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 10:28am
So I've heard...still, how manylayers of managment does, even a big, company need?
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Thu, 03-21-2013 - 10:33am
You've heard? Where? I guess it depends on the type of business and how they are structured and what is needed. My main (male) boss does more than just what my branched off dept. does, he is in charge of the entire dept which is branched off in different directions but basically come all together (if that makes sense lol). We are a worldwide company.

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