Do you think you should rely on a man?
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| Mon, 09-09-2013 - 3:45pm |
I thought the following article was a good read. It conveys an important message that whatever you decide to do, be prepared to support yourself because you can't count on a man to be there to take care of you. The author found herself divorced, her ex quit his job and she had a very hard time making ends meet:
No matter what you do in life, whether you aspire to career greatness or whether you embrace motherhood and housekeeping with open arms, or whether you find yourself doing both of these things at the same time, do it well. Do it with everything you have, with all your heart and with great gusto. But do it wisely.
Don't ever make the same mistake I did and put your life in someone else's hands. And always, always, ALWAYS have a Plan B.
Tell your daughters and your granddaughters and all the other girls in your life this: It's OK to fall in love and have babies and be the homemaker. It's also OK to go to law school or business school or medical school or to beauty school or trade school. In fact, it's more than OK if you want to do BOTH. Better than OK... it's the smart thing to do. Tell our girls that they really can have it all, but ALL on their terms.
This is something I feel very strongly about, you never know what life has in store for you so you should be prepared.
What do you think of her advice?


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<<....and assumption that I'm not talking to people.
Assumption because you did not ask my question that I asked over and over.>
No, you made that assumption before you asked the question on when I use my kindle. I posted about my kindle, you made an assumption, I asked about that assumption and you didn't answer why you made that assumption. Read the posts already.
<<I am just going by what you posted: I read all the time, always carry a book....well, my kindle now. I have found that if something is important to me than I find a way.>>
Oh and look....it doesn't say a single thing about ignoring people in that statement. Shocking.
PumpkinAngel
Consider this proof positive that you don't read the posts. Change the posts to 50 per page and go to page 14 to see the question not only in my posts, but quoted in yours. It's pretty clear that you didn't bother to read the posts.
Can you please just post it. Thanks.
I did, que the double standard.
Nope. Again, checking to see what is going on later. Meaning, I will see at least one of these people that day. lol. Not sitting at a football/baseball, etc. game with my nose in a book to people you see every.single.week. Oh, but you don't do that now, right? lololol.
If you understand diffences than why would you ask such a question as if you had no idea that some people can't find the energy or funds to socalize? That is not logical, if you understand that there are differences than you wouldn't ask the questions or make the comments that you do. If you understand "very well" that family dynamics are different across the board you wouldn't assume that people can just work it out in the same fashion that you work it out.
So instead posts like this below show clearly that you don't understand that family dynamics are vastly different across the boad.
PumpkinAngel
The runaround is not going to work PKA, but thanks for trying.
If you understand diffences than why would you ask such a question as if you had no idea that some people can't find the energy or funds to socalize?
Because again, it CAN be doable. I guess it just is not that important to some to get together with good friends.
That is not logical, if you understand that there are differences than you wouldn't ask the questions or make the comments that you do. If you understand "very well" that family dynamics are different across the board you wouldn't assume that people can just work it out in the same fashion that you work it out.
See my post above.
So instead posts like this below show clearly that you don't understand that family dynamics are vastly different across the boad.
Again: Change the posts to 50 per page and go to page 14 to see the question not only in my posts, but quoted in yours. It's pretty clear that you didn't bother to read the posts.
PumpkinAngel
I know, it's not working for you...the double standard is clear.
PumpkinAngel
<<Because again, it CAN be doable. I guess it just is not that important to some to get together with good friends. >>
Well yea, but nobody said it wasn't doable and no it's not about importance and if you truly understood differences you would know that already. By telling posters that you are "sorry" about differences and continuing to ignore explanations of why something can be done clealry shows a lack of understanding in the differences in family dynamics.
It can be exhausting and expensive and nothing you have said counters that, because it can be exhausting and expensive. Stop ignoring the differences in families and people.
PumpkinAngel
I have never sat at a game with my nose in a book to people I see every week, ever.
PumpkinAngel
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