~Forgive a Cheating Spouse??~
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~Forgive a Cheating Spouse??~
| Fri, 05-27-2005 - 7:58pm |
Would you or could you possibly forgive a cheating spouse? Why or why not??
Is there hope after infidelity?
Do you think SAHM's are more likely to forgive a cheating husband then WOHM's due to financial dependence/independence?
~Jenn

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I'm certain Stacy has known since conception.
In my case, I got pregnant first. Then, my rigid, traditional moral stance decided I should be married to the man. Then, the said man got brain cancer, I fell in love and there you have it.
I will probably never trust enough again to ever get married again. I have been on one date since DH died and am not actively seeking to date. Perhaps my therapy will help but I never even dated before Devin. He is the longest relationship I have ever had. I pretty much never allowed myself to get close to a man ever.
The thought of getting married again or dating literally fills me with fear. I don't know if I could do
&nbs
I dont know what i would do without my family support. even my cousins are *wonderful* to me. i have about ten cousins who i hear from constantly cheering me on, and helping to keep my chin up on a daily basis. and my stbxh didnt cheat on me, which sometimes i think is worse. i tried hard to be a good wife, and nothing ever seemed good enough. stbxh comes from an extremely critical family and i saw this when i was 16yo, however, in my 16yo mind, i thought he would mature, and not be so critical as he got older, and lived away from his family. talk about live and learn!!
i cant imagine not having my family unit behind me. every-single-one of them is supportive. I am a very lucky person.
roflmao
for me it was allen's lips and kisses ... but his a$$ isn't bad either.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
How old is he? where does he live? what does he do?
oh, im sorry. lost my head there for a minute. plz excuse me. ROFLMAO!!!
Uh, SM wasn't talking about you. Remember. Her views on cheating within HER OWN relationship have nothing to do with you, your children, or bazillions of your ex inlaws. Why can't you get that?
Of course adultery *can* have victims. I said myself above that I'd either kill or be killed by it. Again, what on earth does that have to do with SM's marriage?
It. Is. Not. About. You.
I haven't once said she is talking about me. And you weren't talking about her marriage either. You said no one else would be hurt by adultery. I disagree. And I have instances to prove that. Is there always others hurt? Nope. But there can be others hurt. Happens everyday.
Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color. Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.
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