~Forgive a Cheating Spouse??~

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Registered: 02-17-2005
~Forgive a Cheating Spouse??~
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Fri, 05-27-2005 - 7:58pm

Would you or could you possibly forgive a cheating spouse? Why or why not??

Is there hope after infidelity?

Do you think SAHM's are more likely to forgive a cheating husband then WOHM's due to financial dependence/independence?

~Jenn

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 06-01-2005 - 11:27pm

I challenge you to find ONE post where anyone said cheating is good.


>>YOU>>However, all people seem to be saying is they don't agree. They dont' say why they don't agree.>>


>>VIRGO>>


First off, you used the phrase "a cheating spouse" meaning one who is STILL cheating.

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Registered: 11-12-2003
Wed, 06-01-2005 - 11:28pm
But was it just A church or the Catholic church?

***Charles***
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Registered: 04-26-2005
Wed, 06-01-2005 - 11:29pm




Edited 6/1/2005 11:34 pm ET ET by aces_babydoll
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Registered: 03-16-2005
Wed, 06-01-2005 - 11:37pm

"Peole saying they don't like my opinion isn't debate. Debate is when you disprove your oponents stance. Disprove mine." I (and others) have easily disproven your ignorant stance about Catholicism. I'm sorry that you think that debate means proving the other person to be wrong, though - debate can be a fascinating exchanging of ideas. You, however, seem to mistake your opinions for facts which hold true for all the world unless you are proven wrong. (BTW, have you noticed that you don't seem to have proven anything to anyone?)

People have told you why they don't agree. You just don't care why they don't agree because you've already declared your opinion to be the way the world is.

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Registered: 03-16-2005
Wed, 06-01-2005 - 11:48pm
She has said the second marriage was a Catholic one. In which case, it doesn't matter if the first was in a Catholic or a non-Catholic church, as Catholic churches respect marriages performed in other faiths as marriages.
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Registered: 03-16-2005
Wed, 06-01-2005 - 11:51pm

First night of working? What did I miss? Something big apparently!

I don't have the fancy schmancy Ivillage service you do so it doesn't appear I can find the thread I'm referring to for sabinamarianne. Bummer.

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Registered: 12-29-2004
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 5:55am
Around Boston, single moms with adopted kids are all over the place. Have been for years. Who on earth would look askance?
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Registered: 11-25-2004
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 6:15am

How does one show they will never do again what they promised to never do in the first place but did anyway? How do you show your spouse you're faitful after being unfaithful? 24 hour surveilance for the rest of your life?

It is much easier to prove that you will do something than that you will not. I really don't know how my husband could prove to me he'd never cheat again if he cheated once. Obviously, his word would mean nothing since he originally pledged not to do it in the first place but did it anyway.

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Registered: 11-25-2004
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 6:17am
If you read my post, I said it was more likely she'd stay if she had to change roles. And I do think it is. I think there are women who fear independence more than they fear living with a cheating spouse. I'm glad you're not one of them. I don't think this is a decision that should be based on finances but I can see how finances can be an issue for someone who is dependent.
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Registered: 12-29-2004
Thu, 06-02-2005 - 6:30am
I'm hoping someone else can find it. But whatever, I'm sure Hollie's innocent of all charges.

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