~Forgive a Cheating Spouse??~

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Registered: 02-17-2005
~Forgive a Cheating Spouse??~
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Fri, 05-27-2005 - 7:58pm

Would you or could you possibly forgive a cheating spouse? Why or why not??

Is there hope after infidelity?

Do you think SAHM's are more likely to forgive a cheating husband then WOHM's due to financial dependence/independence?

~Jenn

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Registered: 12-29-2004
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 6:48am
B-I-N-G-O!
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Registered: 03-16-2005
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 6:50am
Wow, you didn't even read what I said.
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Registered: 03-29-2003
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 7:32am

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So then what was all that lecturing and posturing on the thread about loyalty to one's parents? It was weird enough that you expected other people to behave according to your cruel, illogical rules. It's even weirder that you don't expect yourself to follow them.

Congratulations! I'm so happy to hear it. I just heard the good news and popped back over, just in case you were still checking in.
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Registered: 01-05-2005
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 9:51am
Well I don't know about this addicted to sex thing. The whole addiction idea is getting alot of abuse these days. However, I'm sure alot of people become pretty convinced they've overcome their need for multiple sex partners when they fall in love. And maybe that lasts even past the first throes of passion and is maintained through good, happy, relatively carefree newly wed days. Or something? But when life gets back to just life - well life is back and they discover they were merely distracted from, not past, anything. Which suggests the "buyer beware" issue should factor prominently when selecting a spouse. The responsibility really should rest with the buyer to find out. Any person in a serious relationship should expect as a matter of course, to come by some real concrete information on partners general history. If not - red flag and go find out.
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Registered: 03-16-2005
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 9:51am
Once again, your "response" has absolutely NOTHING to do with what was said to you. You aren't debating when you completely fail to acknowledge that no one has said what you say they did. You're just repeating your opinion, over, and over, and over. You're not debating anything.
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 9:59am
I've given up.
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Registered: 03-16-2005
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 10:05am
Hmm. Kbmamm is an engineer with two daughters, is a child of divorced parents, has mental illness in her family, ignores anything she doesn't want to address, never changes her opinion and is never wrong about anything. Sounds like CLW is back.


Edited 6/3/2005 10:43 am ET ET by dogma_2
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Registered: 03-16-2005
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 10:39am
And a husband giving his spouse a copy of Dr. Laura's book would also be so disrespectful as to obligate said spouse to file for divorce, especially if said spouse has two daughters, just like you do, who will benefit by being shown that women are not doormats. Wouldn't you say?
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 10:39am
LOL... Maybe.. CLW seemed more able to make her point though.

***Charles***
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 10:56am

I was thinking that too. And her misspellings are the same. But something still sounds different/off. Maybe she created a *new* persona to go with the new name....


Dj

"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~

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