Think of it as a period of time in your life. You're not necessarily giving up your dream job, just taking a break to focus all your attention on something else. You got the job once, perhaps someday you can get a similar one again. Is there anything you can do to keep up your skills or certification (if applicable) while you're a SAHM that would make it easier for you to re-enter the workforce if you decide to do so when the children are older? Then again, you may find that SAH is your dream job! :-) I'd say that my best advice is to be passionate about what you do - take pride in it and remember why you're doing it. This applies to both WOHMs and SAHMs that are making a transition to the other side. Get excited and prepare to rise to a whole new kind of challenge. It's an adventure! Best of luck!
Are you planning on waiting until your husbands work schedule changes or are you planning on quitting and hoping that the extra income comes through? I would personally have a hard time just quitting without knowing that his income had increased enough to cover the household income. Things don't always come through as expected.
I do hope it works out for you and your family. I stay home with our 4 sons and love it but wouldn't put family finances do it unless my dh could provide.
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Sounds similar to my story a few months ago..
I quit my
In my case my current job is close to a dream job and will be hard to leave...I did not say
My third child made all the difference in our situation...I could handle it all with two kids, but could not handle it with three.
I will probably be in your boat soon~ I had three kids in five years.
Well we just had our third and last biological child too. He's 4 months old. We also have 4.5 year old twins so yes, I think I can relate...
"I am the breadwinner/benefit carrier for the family - though we think my husband can take the torch now.
Are you planning on waiting until your husbands work schedule changes or are you planning on quitting and hoping that the extra income comes through? I would personally have a hard time just quitting without knowing that his income had increased enough to cover the household income. Things don't always come through as expected.
I do hope it works out for you and your family. I stay home with our 4 sons and love it but wouldn't put family finances do it unless my dh could provide.
Good luck
Lori
wife to Tony
mom to 4 great guys!
Lori
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