There should be neither caving in nor sticking to her guns. There should be compromise. And there really is room for compromise between "you should work" and "I won't work". Two points of compromise (that she is unwilling to entertain) is compromising on how many hours/week and compromising on household chores and childcare. He will have to do more around the house than he is currently doing (just guessing) and/or she will work part time rather than full time. These points of compromise get brought up from time to time through the thread but brushed off as irrelevent.
you know I have debated taking legal action -- however, he does drop substantial amounts on me periodically ($1000 just last week) AND he is a great dad to them.
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If he's such a control freak? ROFL...that's priceless!
Yeah well, that's just, ya know, like, your opinion, man-The Big Lebowski
not getting loud, just EMPHASIZING.....:)
Dh and I have done exactly that.
you know I have debated taking legal action -- however, he does drop substantial amounts on me periodically ($1000 just last week) AND he is a great dad to them.
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