A good argument for staying home

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A good argument for staying home
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Sat, 10-06-2007 - 1:58pm

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Registered: 07-20-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:07pm

<<what advice have I given her? >>


Not to listen to anyone here.

Karalee
Karalee
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Registered: 09-07-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:08pm
i do not have the inclination to post a policy from every sourc eof
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Registered: 09-07-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:09pm
i didn't tell her not to.
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Registered: 07-20-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:10pm

<<what makes you think that her getting a job is going to make her marriage blissful and that she won't end up in divorce court anyway?>>


Could you find the post where I said that her getting a job would make her marriage blissful and she won't end up in divorce court?


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Karalee
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:11pm
Oooooh, oodles of momly goodness right there.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:12pm
oooh...secret messages??

Dj


"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~


Dj

"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:13pm

Ah come on now, I think those who have given advice, which you have questioning as being qualified to give advice deserve an answer....


So again....Since you are questioning who is qualified to hand out the advice and who isn't...please list your qualifications in order to first make that judgement.

PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 07-20-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:13pm

<<because you have been a parent for 8 plus years, do es not give

Karalee
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:14pm

Yes. All kids do have problems in that sense. Some kids also have learning disabilities, developmental disabilites or problems that come from the temperment they were born with. (These are relevent to some kids of moms on this board).Which are more problematic than having the wrong baseball cleats but not the same as being a runaway or drug addiction.

You implied that the moms on this board weren't qualified to give advice because (you said) our kids had problems. To which I and several others said- yes, of course they do because kids just have problems and that is part of life and does not disqualify anyone from giving advice. Now you bring in drug addiction and running away from home. Again I ask...why? Why are you bringing up these sorts of problems? Are you trying to imply that any of the kids raised by moms on the board have these problems and therefore THAT'S why they aren't qualified to give advice? Seriously. I want to know WHY you brought it up.

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Registered: 09-07-2007
Mon, 10-15-2007 - 3:15pm
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