Guiltathon! Woo hoo!

Yes we do tend to swarm. However, if you look at the individaul posters,you will some sahps saying that wohps raise their children too. You will see wohps AND sahps state that while the parents are the *primary decision makers in their children's lives*, there are plenty of other people who help out. You will see BOTH sahps and wohps talk postitively about othercare. You will see both sahps and wohps talk about the perils of othercare. You will see that is isn't just a different color of black - but all the grays between white and blacks as well as most of the colors of the rainbow thrown in too. You will that the majority of posters feel that each family has different circumstances and thus makes different a choice that work for their family.