Help! Husband pushing me to find job!
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Help! Husband pushing me to find job!
| Tue, 11-07-2006 - 10:35am |
My husband has just taken a leave of absense from his high paying 80 hour a week job to focus on being home more and finding out what he really wants to do. He is now working 3 days a week at a job he really likes. He always said if he took this job he would find another part time job to supplement the income. I am working weekends and babysitting during the week, but my income is a joke. Our kids are 5 and 3 and cry every weekend when I leave. My problem is this: my husband has put no effort in finding that 2nd job he said he would find and is pushing me to work full time. I want to be a stay at home mom, but it may mean him going back to a job he hates. He says the kids will adjust, get over it. Am I being selfish or lazy for wanting to stay home? Is he being selfish for leaving a good paying job?

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Are they all your children's ages, older or younger?
PumpkinAngel
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The post you responded to was specifically about me and suzy, her being in denial and me feeling like I have had my check book open constantly so spending money on sports/activities was at the fore front of my thoughts.
PumpkinAngel
Same question to you -- what does or would he wear to a funeral?
I guess I'm weird - I like my husband to take me out for dinner to places where men wear suits, or at the very least a suit jacket.
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Hmm, you know I don't recall what he wore to the last funeral we attended.
PumpkinAngel
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