Help! Husband pushing me to find job!
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Help! Husband pushing me to find job!
| Tue, 11-07-2006 - 10:35am |
My husband has just taken a leave of absense from his high paying 80 hour a week job to focus on being home more and finding out what he really wants to do. He is now working 3 days a week at a job he really likes. He always said if he took this job he would find another part time job to supplement the income. I am working weekends and babysitting during the week, but my income is a joke. Our kids are 5 and 3 and cry every weekend when I leave. My problem is this: my husband has put no effort in finding that 2nd job he said he would find and is pushing me to work full time. I want to be a stay at home mom, but it may mean him going back to a job he hates. He says the kids will adjust, get over it. Am I being selfish or lazy for wanting to stay home? Is he being selfish for leaving a good paying job?

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I understand what you are saying about debating this topic.
As you said >>...said that she had seen legislators literally shouting at each other over a bill, then the votes taken, one side loses, they shake hands and move on. <<
The only problem is...I have asked that my part in this debate be dropped....which to me would like shaking hands and moving on.....BUT it doesn't seem like anyone wants to move on.....it's like energizer bunny commercial.....it keeps going & going & going.....
So I am proposing this: I am shaking hands w/this & everyone who seems to keep going....is anyone willing to shake hands w/me & move on to bigger & better issues?
If so great...let's do it, but if I log back on later & see that I have posted to or re-debated....that isn't moving on.
thnx
"I can't stand it when both parents are working outside the home, and there isn't the need for it. That to me is very selfish!!"
I can't stand when people think their family is the only one that counts, and so as long as their family is provided for, they should make no effort to contribute to society outside of the home. That, to me, is very selfish.
Of course, one does not have to work for a paycheck to contribute to society outside of the home. But for some of us, our contributions would be incomplete if we devoted only a day or two a week to the cause.
At the risk of offending you by posting on a topic that you would rather drop, it will eventually die a natural death if left alone. All you have to do is to ignore everyone who continues to reply to you.
Chris
The truth may be out there but lies are in your head. Terry Pratchett
LOL
Chris
The truth may be out there but lies are in your head. Terry Pratchett
Edited 2/10/2007 9:42 pm ET by gr8fulmom1
~Ghostwriter, M.A.
Given the combination of the incredibly low savings rate for families in teh united states and the precarious condition of social security, I think moms in the work force are warranted. It's a bleak future for those who don't save to take care of themselves.
Being able to save is one of the reasons my husband works. We could live on my income but want to save for college and retirement and to be able to have our kids participating in activities. I guess he's just too greedy to SAH, lol.
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