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how do i convince my husband
| Mon, 07-18-2005 - 4:09pm |
how do i convince my husband to let me at least job-share so i can take care of our 3 month old dd? he grew up with his mom working & all his friend's moms working. we can afford it if we cut back on some things, but he doesn't want to cut back & just doesn't understand someone wanting to be a stay at home mom...it doesn't help mycause that the grandmothers will babysit. i'm so unhappy about having to go back to work...he wants me to work full time 1 more year & just doesn't get it! i feel like my heart is being ripped from my chest every time i hink about it.

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I totally agree....a quiet house is a treat sometimes.
PumpkinAngel
Of course.....I didn't have a doubt, not one single one.
PumpkinAngel
"And do you disagree with the reason why he had to be up at 5 am?"
Not with the reason, but with the fact that she insists that it is *he* who has to be up at 5 am, rather than *she* who needs him to be up at this time.
"Why do you let your dd stay up until 10 pm every night"
Where did I say that? BTW, why do you use the term "let her"?
"Don't you want to spend alone time with your husband at night?"
Not particularly, we get plenty of alone time during the day. BTW, do you mean alone time as in time as a couple? Or do you mean alone time as in time without kids?
BTW, what exactly does alone time with your dh have to do with your children's bedtime?
Strangely enough, *their* bedtime certainly seems to be more about *you*, than *them*.
"I think it takes up alot of time to try to label everything a child does into an educational experience."
Not for us :)
"Like Suzy said, a child should be able to be a child."
Hmm, isn't learning a big part of being a child? Isn't it a big part of childhood? Surely you realize that people learn more as children than they do at any other time in their lives?
"There is a time to learn and a time to have fun."
Well, some people think that learning *is* fun.
In fact, some people think that learning and fun are one in the same :)
"LTB, those choices only become controversial when she tries to play them off as "optimal" or "ideal" for ALL families, not just her own."
Hmm, I haven't used the words "optimal" or "ideal" anywhere in this thread.
Likewise, I haven't said that these choices are "optimal" or "ideal" for ALL families anywhere in this thread either.
I used "let her" because I assume at age 8 or 9, she goes to bed when you put her to bed.
"BTW, what exactly does alone time with your dh have to do with your children's bedtime?"
If my children don't go to bed before I do, I get no time for conversation or physical intimacy with my husband.
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