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how do i convince my husband
| Mon, 07-18-2005 - 4:09pm |
how do i convince my husband to let me at least job-share so i can take care of our 3 month old dd? he grew up with his mom working & all his friend's moms working. we can afford it if we cut back on some things, but he doesn't want to cut back & just doesn't understand someone wanting to be a stay at home mom...it doesn't help mycause that the grandmothers will babysit. i'm so unhappy about having to go back to work...he wants me to work full time 1 more year & just doesn't get it! i feel like my heart is being ripped from my chest every time i hink about it.

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Tampons may be new
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Also, what do you mean by, "the older of the twins now 16 months," aren't they both 16 months, seeing as they're twins LOL?
I was responding to your snarky comment about there age. To each his own. In our family (we have 2 boys as well) the boys wanted to know who was the big sister and the little sister. Your nephews may not have older siblings therefore do not care about who is older. Ours did. It had nothing to do with our preferences or the fact that they are fraternal.
BTW I am a SAHM and have complete Respect for WOHM's and there decision, be it they Love there job. Therefore it makes them Happy and Complete and a better parent for it. Or they work to make ends meet or are saving for college. I do not respect SAHM's who think that they are the End All. And that there is no other choice in parenting.
Thank You!!
BTW love your siggie!
Well, considering that on this board we're not allowed to give kids' names (**snort**) ...Seriously, many like to keep their children's names secret, for security purposes. So we designate by "older ds", "middle ds", "ds1", "ds2" ... etc ... why should twins be treated any differently? Saying "the older one" is simply a way of identifying WHICH twin she was talking about without giving a name.
Maybe you would like to use your childrens names on the internet, I prefer to keep them private.
OMG
The twins are girls. Ds1 is our oldest and Ds2 is the youngest of the boys.
Funny that you do not have your childrens names and ages in your profile?
What are the ages and names
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