How does this relate to the debate?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
How does this relate to the debate?
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Wed, 08-20-2003 - 7:56pm
Hey I rhymed! lol

Something occurred to me earlier and I wanted to see how others thought it might relate to the whole "which is harder SAH/WOH" portion of the debate that crops up so often.

I think that, when you look at either group *as a whole*, the WOHs might have it harder. And this is why ...

There are virtually no SAHMs who SAH because they "have to". There are virtually no SAHMs who are forced to SAH. A woman that SAH wants to SAH.(I'm sure there's a few exceptions out there; controlling dhs who MAKE their wives SAH, disabled children, etc) A woman that SAH doesn't hate her "job", or else she'd go get a WOH job. A woman that SAH is generally getting what she wants.

There are LOTS AND LOTS of WOHMs who WOH because they "have to". A single mom, or one whose dh doesn't make enough to support the family, or one with a disabled dh, whatever the case may be ... she may long, with all her heart, to SAH, but *can't*. Many WOHMs hate their jobs, but can't quit.

Anyhoo ... just wanted to stir up something new

Hollie

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 1:22am
Go to bed. I think you reeeeaaaally need to get some rest. This has proven a bit too much for you. You're getting vile again. And that just *can't* be good for anyone.

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PULEASSSEEEE!>>>


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Registered: 08-01-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 1:26am
Im not being vile Iam telling you the truth, if you dont like what i have to say to you IGNORE me...actually, i think that is best!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 1:29am
Go get some rest.
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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 1:29am
Uh guys, I just have to step in here a sec. This particular poster is sounding a LOT like another poster on the PI debate board awhile back. She later admitted to be a 13yo girl. The typos are the same, the writing style is the same, even the profile *sounds* like this poster.

Dont feed the trolls.

dj

Dj

"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~

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Registered: 08-01-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 1:32am
Why dont you ignore me?

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Registered: 08-01-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 1:37am
No not really if you look at this board over all you will see you clearly are one who posts everyday all day long...you see im ot i only willpost when i feel like it...watch me ill prove it to you~

Your typical behavior is a addiction to the internet. of course imo i could give a hoot what you think.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 1:50am
Hey heres to reject letters! I just got my first one in the mail the other day, lol! I hear that you arent a *real* writer until you get at least fifty of the suckers! I called my brother (he is illustrating the books I've written) and told him "We've made it! I got our first rejection letter!" He and I were both laughing and hooting and hollering. We figure that at least we are submitting the stuff!!

dj

Dj

"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~

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Registered: 03-29-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 5:02am
does it count if a WOHD of a SAH family works FOR that SUV? Or is it only "bad" to own an SUV if you are a WOHM?

Enquiring minds want to know.....

eileen

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Registered: 03-29-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 5:05am
BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks, i needed that.
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Registered: 03-29-2003
Thu, 08-28-2003 - 5:24am
It meant nothing other than you agreed with a post that expounded on "some WOHMs work for SUV's"....which is a STEREOTYPE. Hence, if you BUY INTO IT, then you must be shopping at Stereotypes R Us.

Please tell me that i don't need to explain "stereotype" to you.

I asked the question above....What does it mean if the WOHD of a SAH family works FOR the SUV????

I'm done. You're lucky that i didn't see what you wrote about me above -- Must be pretty proud of yourself, huh????

Does the TOS mean anything to you? Personal attacks?? Any of this ringing a bell???

Have a good day at school.

Eileen

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