How does this relate to the debate?

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How does this relate to the debate?
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Wed, 08-20-2003 - 7:56pm
Hey I rhymed! lol

Something occurred to me earlier and I wanted to see how others thought it might relate to the whole "which is harder SAH/WOH" portion of the debate that crops up so often.

I think that, when you look at either group *as a whole*, the WOHs might have it harder. And this is why ...

There are virtually no SAHMs who SAH because they "have to". There are virtually no SAHMs who are forced to SAH. A woman that SAH wants to SAH.(I'm sure there's a few exceptions out there; controlling dhs who MAKE their wives SAH, disabled children, etc) A woman that SAH doesn't hate her "job", or else she'd go get a WOH job. A woman that SAH is generally getting what she wants.

There are LOTS AND LOTS of WOHMs who WOH because they "have to". A single mom, or one whose dh doesn't make enough to support the family, or one with a disabled dh, whatever the case may be ... she may long, with all her heart, to SAH, but *can't*. Many WOHMs hate their jobs, but can't quit.

Anyhoo ... just wanted to stir up something new

Hollie

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 6:28am
Sunflower might be it, but I can't remember because I think there was two or three of them that she admitted to.

This one DOES remind me of the borg fest that you are speaking of. I wonder if we are getting a return show w/out the guts to go on the same board? Alot who post there, post here as well. And I have noticed certain people set this one off towards the deep end and others don't.

Interesting...o-well...I guess I will just keep my peanut bag to myself and starve the poor dear in hopes of a nice, calm, quiet death.

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 6:31am
How come that course hasn't been spammed here before? What "in" do YOU have....ROFL!

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Registered: 08-01-2003
Fri, 08-29-2003 - 7:30am
I beleive it is all all over your mouth.
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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 7:38am
I cant agree with a thing you have said, I have no need to put you on ignore...i suspect that is what you need to do concerning my posts.

Everyone on this board whom is debating me personally has a trollish flare to their styke that is sad thing the regulars here do this quite often thats pathetic. They are allowed to act in such behavior and others are not. I have never though you were a troll but others here behave with trollish behavior. that has been confirmed.

You have a great day to and what I said about you I admited i should have kept to myslef but I felt a lot of your post were talk of trash and i would hate to be like that. Now I find that we have just misunderstood one another and the I was wrong about you.

The thing I dont get is you regulars here dont seem to understand me but a few newbies hear exactly what Iam saying and agree with me hummmmm...

unity^

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 7:45am
Your right i do have better thing'a to do.I am here for a reason that I no have place explaning to you. I was asked to come here.

Now Iam fully aware I may have violated TOS when I posted my feeling for the majority of the group here. That is why I removed it. However Iam a grown women I may Post what I think even if I get a warning which I have not btw and no post have been removed. The funny thing Is everyone acusses VIOLATION of TOS and the posts still stand. So i reality it is not a personal attack but a personal opinion. There is a difference. I also know few of you have been bened and have came back under your second names. Not you.

Okay so that is how you see my post, mayI say I think you have a habit to misrepresent words, acusse posters fo things they are not and you dont have prooff to back your claims, most of all you cant seem to stick to the topic of debate.

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Registered: 08-01-2003
Fri, 08-29-2003 - 7:49am
huh? No that was not what i was implying...I know what iam.
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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 7:53am
Oh im not sure what your saying, i thought you told me you think iam having problem navigating the boards. What you saying does not makes sense really not to me. But your right I do mess up on the navigation to the boards when we are on post 4,ooo whatever, it gets tough to follow for me.
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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 8:10am
Im glad that I have given you and slim a reason to agree. That is fabulous,really iam glad :)

To answer your question... I quess b/c you dont really know what my nick stands for. You joke that you do but in reality you do not know what silverunity means to me you assume it is the universal meaning9 who cares though right it is silly, teehee). I find it so frustrating that you point out your feelings of my behavior to be childish,trollish,confusing,stereotypical when to me that would be what you have displayed. It's really no matter... to each his own and we all may have our own personal opinions of one another, we should however, imo stick to the topics of debate, not people and what we think we now about people, from their postings on a internet board.Erros and all.

I actually think as a SAHM i could bring another side to this debate if everyone could just stop debating who Iam to them personally what they think Iam doing here and why. time will ony tell.


I cant imagine Iam on my laptop sitting in a place on the beach. lol, hummm quess im sucked into this baord at this time in my life :-)

unity^





Edited 8/29/2003 6:21:52 PM ET by silverunity

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 8:16am
Oh, i should have said I... some onlooker's, internet friends..people whom are here but not participating in the personal war you all are having with me and who you all think Iam.




Edited 8/29/2003 8:32:23 AM ET by silverunity

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Fri, 08-29-2003 - 8:28am
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ROFLOL! I just have to say that that is THE MOST ERRONEOUS characterization of my posting habits on this board that i have ever seen.

BWHAHAHAHAHAHALHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

eileen

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