How long from marriage to birth of yo...

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Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:23pm

How long from marriage to birth of your first child (with your spouse)?



  • Had our first child before marriage
  • In the first year (was pregnant when married)
  • In the first year (was NOT pregnant when married)
  • In the 2nd year of marriage
  • In the 3rd year of marriage
  • In the 4th year of marriage
  • In the 5th year of marriage
  • In the 6th year of marriage
  • In the 7th year of marriage
  • After the 7th year of marriage


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Okmrsmommy-36, CPmom to DD-16 and DS-14

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Registered: 12-12-2002
Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:26pm
Heck, we have polled everything else, I was curious about this one. :) For the record, we had our first child 15 months and one week after we got married.

Okmrsmommy-36, CPmom to DD-16 and DS-14

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Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:27pm
Does this mean the birth of my first child without my spouse doesn't count?

What if my first child was from someone besides my spouse?

"There in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I close my eyes, feel their beauty and follow where they lead."

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Registered: 12-12-2002
Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:29pm
I was just curious as to how long people have waited to have kids with their spouse. Doesn't mean your first child doesn't count, if they aren't your child with your spouse, but they don't count for this poll.

Okmrsmommy-36, CPmom to DD-16 and DS-14

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Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:35pm
Our eldest child was 14 months old when we got married. As mentioned in previous threads, we were going through alot and it took us some time. He was at our wedding :)

K


Edited 7/29/2003 1:37:18 PM ET by kmgalligan

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Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:37pm
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Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:43pm
I am getting married in October and we are planning on trying during our honeymoon. But I have a five year old from a previous relationship.

Blondie

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DH: Jay (34)  DS: Mason (5)

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:48pm
I guess we can't partake in the poll then. *sigh*

Mine was at my wedding too, and she doesn't count. LOL LOL LOL LOL

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Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:56pm
We had been married just shy of 11 months when Joel was born. He was due 4 days before our wedding anniversary, but I guess he decided he couldn't wait that long.

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Tue, 07-29-2003 - 1:59pm
7 years from marriage to when we had dd. Then another 8 years between dd and ds. Just call us the procrastinators.

Susan

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Tue, 07-29-2003 - 2:06pm
7 years. We had to get our student loans paid off before we could afford to take on daycare. The second child issue was put on hold until the mortgage was paid off, as we couldn't afford daycare/tuition for two along with the mortgage payment.

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