If you hadn't had kids...
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If you hadn't had kids...
| Thu, 05-20-2004 - 10:34pm |
And your dh made enough $$ to support both of you comfortably, do you think you would be working?
| Thu, 05-20-2004 - 10:34pm |
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PumpkinAngel
PumpkinAngel
Wow, I have read that before from you and every time I hear it....its just sad.
PumpkinAngel
Vent Away! I am so sorry to hear about the tiredness/nausea/indigestion. Although I got lucky with minimal nausea, indigetion is sure to follow if this pregnancy is like my last. That's when my affair with Tums coms in. It's great to hear that the baby is so active. I love the kicking part. I'm only five weeks away from that!
I'll talk to you soon!
as for me, the choices i've made -- continuing ft-woh, using dc, bottles, cribs -- are irrelevant to raising kids with unconditional love, rules and limitations, consequences when necessary. MY "natural instinct" tells me that THESE are the things that kids need to grow and thrive. The tools of getting there are IRRELEVANT -- as observed by the fact that your dd is NO different than any of my 3 kids in any way that truly matters.
Thanks though for worrying, but my "natural instinct" and "idealism" is STILL intact, even as we're entering the dreaded teenage years with ds.
Eileen
<> Actually, I couldn't possibly insult Jorvia or anyone here. If I see someone mercilessly insult a good debater here, I have no problem critiquing her, and I can't imagine anyone has ever felt insulted by my words. It's very hard to insult a regular here.
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