If you hadn't had kids...

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Registered: 04-23-2004
If you hadn't had kids...
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Thu, 05-20-2004 - 10:34pm
And your dh made enough $$ to support both of you comfortably, do you think you would be working?

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:38pm
Oh yes, gave birth with epidural in the hospital. I'm not one of those homebirthing type women!

I'm sure I did utilize volunteers. I saw none while I was a patient. But I know they are behind the scenes.

Yes, I said that about our little church :o)

I don't have a little box for volunteering. I'm not going to explain myself of what I thought you meant in the first place for the 100th time.

I just remembered you mentioning library so I used that as an example.

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Registered: 08-19-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:39pm
>>While my dh does not and never has expected me to do these things, I've always done every one of them.<<

But why WOULDN'T he expect you to do these things? That's your JOB, isn't it? What else would you be doing if you didn't do these things, laze around the house all day?

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Registered: 06-27-1998
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:41pm
See we can agree on something...epidural are wonderful things...aren't they?

PumpkinAngel

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Registered: 02-23-2004
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:42pm
I don't laze. I am continously doing something. I don't know why, he is just always said, I don't expect it, but a huge big thank you for doing it. He is truly a super guy and has been since the day we met.
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Registered: 03-31-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:46pm
You are absolutely right LOL, I guess that'd be a 180, not a 360. Thanks for pointing that out :)
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Registered: 08-19-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:47pm
And do you thank him for doing his job as well?
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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:47pm

That's twice now that you have evaded the question which is (for the thrid time)....


If your DH didn't EXPECT you to do all of the housekeeping, cooking, shopping, yard work, what did he expect you to do?

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Bridget & Ethan (5)

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:48pm
"You really and truly don't get the choose-to-WOH thing for moms, do you?"

Nope, I really don't.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:50pm
Huh.

Hugs,

Bridget & Ethan (5)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 5:55pm
Max, is that YOU?? If you aren't Max, the resemblance in lifestyle and posting is downright spooky.

Susan

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