Kids as an "excuse" to stay home
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| Fri, 08-15-2008 - 2:16pm |
No one would likely ever admit to this...but what percentage of women who stay at home, and have no plans to ever return to the work force, or to do more than work PT...stay home because of the kids, but also for the major fact that they simply don't want to work?
I don't love my job every second, and there's definitely jobs out there that I don't think I could get out of bed for every day. But the idea of never working again, and being completely dependent on my spouse...kind of blows my mind. I realize not everyone's of the same ilk, and one's not better than the other.
I do wonder how many of the women who go on and on about how great it is to be home with the kids, are primarily just relieved to not have to punch the clock every day in addition to being mom.

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"it's nice to know those of us who have choices in sah or woh don't have to worry about some bottom line dollar and can actually determine our outside choices by what it is we really want to do not have to do."
That's only because your family's financial goals are lower than other families'.
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"Parents who don't need the second income don't work.
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Are you saying you didn't need a second income when John was a minor?
Do you support SAH over WOH for all families, not just your own?
I do not think WOH is better for all parents, even though both DH and I WOH.
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I'm sorry if debate offends you.
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Do you think I should SAH?
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