Kids as an "excuse" to stay home
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| Fri, 08-15-2008 - 2:16pm |
No one would likely ever admit to this...but what percentage of women who stay at home, and have no plans to ever return to the work force, or to do more than work PT...stay home because of the kids, but also for the major fact that they simply don't want to work?
I don't love my job every second, and there's definitely jobs out there that I don't think I could get out of bed for every day. But the idea of never working again, and being completely dependent on my spouse...kind of blows my mind. I realize not everyone's of the same ilk, and one's not better than the other.
I do wonder how many of the women who go on and on about how great it is to be home with the kids, are primarily just relieved to not have to punch the clock every day in addition to being mom.

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I don't deny that you have worked harder since being a sahm BUT I have 2 jobs, one I have to answer to a boss from 9-5 on M-F, and one I have at home with my kids from 5pm-9am. One the weekend I work from 5pm (Friday night) to 9am (Monday morning).
We just recently went on vacation and while I was on vacation away from work, I was still working my 2nd job as a mom.
All moms "work" and it is hard for all of us :)
<< Are you saying it's wrong to have higher financial aspirations?>>
LOL, what are higher financial aspirations?
Your post makes absolutely no sense.
Hey there toots I'm back didja miss me?
guess we have more in commmon than I thought the financial model of MY Household is to spend less than comes in -- AND as I always point out to eggs i do it on ONE INCOME!!! Fancy that!! I"m that one income spending less household couldnt' care less about 'stuff' person JUST LIKE THE TWO OF YOU!!!!
HUH! We must be related or something...
- Jeane "Dear Abby" Phillips, in an interview with Lisa Leff.
Yes. We. Did.
<<You'd have more choices, too, if you made $100,000 a year.>>
Not necessarily.
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