Ladies...Enough Already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ladies...Enough Already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:10pm |
Can we please voluntarily end this thread from grlimilakinskeeper, or whatever her screen name is...it's getting too personal, and not very productive.
Kat

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and NO, you're not an unfit parent, but i cringe inside each time I read how you're trying to limit and restrict his visitation -- and thus his role/relationship in their lives. Couch it any way you want -- the book, the smoking....it all comes down to you actively SEARCHING for ways to cut him out of their lives. You can protest it until the cows come home, but it is really quite easy to see - even for those that have not been privy to this saga.
and you are right. I think i need to put you on ignore now. as it's said, "no good deed goes unpunished".
eileen
I just asked a question. If you're so hung up on equal access, why don't your kids have it? I have reason for my kids not to have equal access to their father. Namely his smoking. One way or the other, I hope to reduce their exposure. Yes, that means my kids won't have equal access to their father but yours don't either!! I have no idea why you're arguing with me on this issue.
How is actively trying to prevent a relationship between them and their father in their best interest?
And lastly, how is your anger, bitterness, and need for control of your ex in their best interest?
dj
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
And what about those statistics and research you have always been so fond of? The ones that say that girls who dont have a relationship with their fathera are MUCH more likely to become sexually active early, do poorly in school, have lifelong emotional issues with men and relationships, etc?
Cancer is a real risk. But so are the other issues. They might not cause death, but they can certainly make for a miserable and unhappy life. And you seem pretty cavalier about giving your children those kind of issues to deal with.
dj
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
So what do you have to say about the judges who have curtailed and eliminated visitation because a parent smoked around the kids???
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
Yours appears to be an effort to control and/or eliminate visitation, in the interests of making the ex somehow *pay*. It really doesnt have a whole lot to do with secondhand smoke. Because I think if he didnt smoke, you'd still be looking for some way to keep him from getting joint custody.
dj
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
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