Ladies...Enough Already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ladies...Enough Already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:10pm |
Can we please voluntarily end this thread from grlimilakinskeeper, or whatever her screen name is...it's getting too personal, and not very productive.
Kat

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dj
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
You are PURPOSELY trying to restrict his access to his children. She is not. Big difference there.
So if you get him to agree to not smoke around the girls, are you going to be able to accept joint custody? Because somehow I think you are going to keep looking for things no matter *what* he agrees to.
Its just not about the smoking at all.
dj
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
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eileen
again, thanks for clarifying the differences between our two visitation situation. I'd be mortified if I even thought about trying to reduce his visitation -- they SO adore their dad!!!! And they NEED him!
Eileen
So, HE put THEIR best interests first as school is critical.
eileen
Oh, and do you know WHY i "allowed" my dh to continue his little e-crap? because my son's bar-mitzvah was in 6 weeks and there was NO WAY IN HELL that i was going to do ANYTHING to ruin what he had spent a year preparing for!!!! So, like the great mother that i am, i stuffed down every bit of anger, loathing, condemnation, etc...because i LOVE my son THAT much. My best friend, sisters and parents were SO proud of me for doing it that way.
Oh, and i made the best of it by walking on my treadmill -- anger is a phenomenal motivator -- and i've since walked off close to 40 lbs.!!!! almost 3 full sizes!
eileen
eileen
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