Ladies...Enough Already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ladies...Enough Already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
| Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:10pm |
Can we please voluntarily end this thread from grlimilakinskeeper, or whatever her screen name is...it's getting too personal, and not very productive.
Kat

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You know what REALLY bothers me about this whole thing?
How exactly is 50% worse then 100%?
I'm not all that great in math....so I'll defer to your higher education on this one.
And what if your custody plan backfires?
Yeah, you have your girls best interests at heart. keep telling yourself that.
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Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
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Dj
"Now when I need help, I look in the mirror" ~Kanye West~
Jenna
My children were not "mental cases" when they went to see therapists after Devin died. Their world had fallen apart, their mother had fallen apart and I thought it would benefit them to talk to an outside source.
I didn't realize a child had to be a "mental case" to recieve mental health care assistance when their family is falling apart..due to divorce or death or abandoment. I thought it was being extra careful and cautious.
Silly me.
"Hasty conclusions are the mark of a fool" Sign in front of a church
Kristi
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If he gets a joint custody arrangement now without a smoking restriction, their exposure to his smoking will increase because the half of the time they're with him, there will be no one around to run him out of the house. They've been exposed to about 25% of what he smokes at home. Post divorce, they would be exposed to half of what he smokes. That's double.
Even a standard visitation schedule won't reduce their exposure unless the court puts a no smoking restriction on visitation as he'd have them more than 25% of the time they're not in school and would be free to smoke all he wanted around them. I need the court restriction on smoking around the kids to reduce their exposure any way this goes.
Since their family is being torn apart anyway, I might as well use the court to improve the air my kids breathe. I'm looking for the best outcome for my kids and that would be a smoke free environment regardless of which parent they're with but I need the court to enforce that. 9 years of bitching, fighting, having doctors talk to him, etc, etc, etc... didn't work. Perhaps having a judge threaten to take away visitation will.
Edited 10/10/2004 12:11 pm ET ET by grimalkinskeeper
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