Met a mom last week with 3 kids under 3
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| Sat, 03-25-2006 - 9:59am |
A 2 year old and 17 month old twins. First she accomplished *that* through two surrogates! Wonderful what modern medicine can do.
Anyway, she doesnt work full time, she consults to several companies so is out of the home one full day then a few hours a day on other days. Sometimes for work, sometimes to go to the gym, etc.
She has a full time live in nanny, and two part time nannies. Essentially they always have someone with them and the kids. She feels she needs two to properly care for her three.
I immediately thought of all the comments her lifestyle would elicit from this board.
The day she and I met she had just come from a 2 hour session at the gym, and was then heading off to go do some shopping.
BTW, she's a complete rock star in industry, having 'retired' a year ago after a 30 year career that took her right up to the top of corporate America so she's definetly *earned* her right to do whatever the heck she wants.
But anyway, she feels she is a super hands on mom. I was curious what others would think?
MM

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Jennie
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Because bad influences are part of society, and by artificially delaying the age at which they become immersed in an environment that includes bad influences, you are running the risk of them being more naive and less "street smart" than other children their age.
I don't want my children to be protected from bad influences, I want them to learn how to handle themselves in such situations.
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I can't avoid asking the question of whether I was more picky in terms of a mate than you were, because how can you possibly tell how a 19 year old man is going to be at age 40?
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Jennie
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So how are you accomplishing that?
PumpkinAngel
i disagree. again ;)......i think a *bad* child is a child who makes wrong choices and wrong behaviors. when my child was diagnosed with a behavior condition, the first persons i turned to were dh and i and questioned what we were doing wrong. we were doing things wrong and learned to change ways ourselves...i think bad kids have parents that either have a lot to learn or chose to blind themselves to the family condition.
edited to clarify my point.
Edited 3/28/2006 12:44 pm ET by egd3blessed
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